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Sunday, March 30, 2014

On a lazy Sunday afternoon

It's been a busy week, so some lazy time at the end of it is very welcome!

Last night we saw the local dramatic society's production of "Midsummer Night's Dream", a play which I studied in my second year of high school - a thousand years ago, at least - and it was an excellent production.  A very good cast made sense of most of Master Shakespeare's words, not always an easy thing!  The humans wore modern dress, the mechanicals wore fun steampunk costumes, and the fairies were.....well, fairies, I suppose.  They didn't wear tutus or wave sparkly wands, but we still knew they were fairies.

That was preceded by a performance early in the afternoon by the uke group in the garden of the local music school, people said nice things to us and about us but I don't think we played as well as we have on other occasions.  Never mind, there's always next time......

On our recent trip home from the Big Smoke we stopped off at a memorial to a miner killed on 16th December, 1929, in the bush between two towns which are rapidly encroaching on this peaceful spot.
You can even tell that I was wearing blue denim capri pants and a red top, can't you?  Here is more information about the event which led to the memorial - the so-called "Rothbury Riot".  Many words have been written about this in newspapers, books, and song; here's one (interestingly on an Italian site) written by a local man a year afterwards, a musician who played violin in a dance band.  It was played and sung for many years afterwards. Another song written many years later was sung by my choir in Sydney who learnt it at my request because Norman Brown, the miner shot and killed by a police bullet that day, was my mother's cousin.  His death certificate states that he died from the " effects of a gunshot wound in the abdomen accidentally received at Rothbury during the quelling by police officers of a riot".  Accidentally - who knows?  There's no one alive today to dispute that; police apparently had orders to fire into the air to dispel the miners, although some eye-witnesses said they fired directly into the crowd.  Norman was sitting to one side with a few mates and was hit by a ricocheting bullet, dying almost instantly.  The information contained on his death certificate was written after the inquest into his death which took place nearly two months afterwards.

Norman was born when his mother Laura was 17.....interestingly my grandmother Edith, her sister, also had a child out of wedlock at 18.......and now the mystery deepens, as Laura later had (so my mother told me) a daughter named Dorothy Grace.  Gracey, as she was known in the family, died of appendicitis as a teenager, but on looking online for her birth record the only Dorothy Grace born in possible years has Ethel given as her mother - and Ethel was a sister of Laura and Edith!  Note to self:  must investigate further.....I have no memories of Laura as she died when I was barely a toddler so have to rely on memories of what my mother told me, and she died 15 years ago so I can't ask her.  Matters like illegitimacy used to be hushed up and not spoken about in earlier days so my mother probably wouldn't have known who gave birth to Gracey, she herself was only two years old when Gracey died.  Laura is named on Gracey's grave marker as her mother, and Albert, the man Laura married in 1910 (two years after the only baby I could find named Dorothy Grace was born) is named as her father.

Family mysteries are quite intriguing, aren't they?  A distant cousin and I both have Grace as our middle names as a tribute to Gracey......Jennifer Dorothy would be a bit of a mouthful.  Jennifer Grace isn't too bad.

"Sunday hospitalities.
In this country it is not expected that persons will call after informal hospitalities extended on Sunday.  All gatherings on that day ought to be informal.  No dinner parties are given on Sunday, or at least, they are not considered as good form in good society."

Thank goodness for that, because I am feeling too lazy to prepare for a dinner party.

Enjoy your days!

9 comments:

  1. Interesting! It is surprising how many families have a little mystery like that in them. My father's family did.

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  2. Family history is very interesting and almost every family has a mystery like yours (mine certainly does) I hope you can solve the puzzle one day.

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  3. This is such an interesting post Jennifer. All of our families have skeletons...do you ever wonder if you will be a skeleton for ensuing generations? :)
    I sewed costumes one time for a production of Midsummer Night's Dream. Since then I have had a deeper understanding of the play.

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  4. Wow, that is a fascinating story and your poor cousin for lack of not knowing what else to call him, innocently sitting there and takes a bullet. What a mess and then no investigation for 2 months. Wow. I love your family history and stories, it fascinates me so much. People in my family didn't seem to care much about their history or at least they didn't/wouldn't talk about it very much. So I love the hear the stories others tell. Thanks for Sharing!! Hugs.

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  5. loved that post... although my memory is bad I do enjoy historical things...
    Hugz

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  6. i'm all for lazy sunday afternoons - doesn't happen too much around here (the lazy part), so when it does i am even more grateful...

    stray bullets have been taking too high a toll on innocents for too long...

    i have a granddaughter named Grace ... her middle name is Jyleyanne - so her initials are the opposite of yours...

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  7. Possibly lots of skeletons in our closet but I've yet to pursue them. A cousin has done great research for all of us and most were stunned to learn we are of Irish descent, not Scottish. I remember my father being particularly upset. The rest is pretty boring from what I've read of it. Maybe she just hasn't unearthed the "good stuff" yet!

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  8. Indeed, very mysterious.

    Don't worry about the lady sitting behind little Nicholas. I got another comment (now deleted) which was VERY disapproving. I should have written more carefully. Nicky hardly bounced at all, and almost while I was taking his photo, his mum was removing him from his upside down position. Also, there was quite a big gap between our sofa and the one behind. The lady's head was in no danger. Obviously my Anon ticker-offer doesn't approve of children, parents, laughing, scones, tea, Ikea... . Anyone who knows us would know that we are very self-conscious people who have probably brought up our children to be far too aware of other people and how they feel - my lot are nice kind adults who probably allow the world to walk over them, which is not necessarily a good thing. We would not have allowed N to annoy the other café users. But I couldn't really expect blog readers to know this.

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  9. Very interesting indeed Jennifer. I love the mysteries of every family and I fear that some are not meant to surface.
    I remember as a child coming home from church on a sunday and in the afternoon many people would stop by and visit as it was a day of rest for farmers. We would then go visit people the next sundays.

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