A couple of pics of the recently painted and curtained sewing room, the first looks to the west over the back yard.....
Judging from a few comments on my blog post one is entitled to be crabby at times...here's the gist of what I wrote in reply. Isn't it funny how we, as women, feel we have to continually present ourselves to the rest of the world in a 'good' light? and when we let our guard down and we say what's on our mind, it doesn't always go over well? especially for those of more advanced years, as it makes us out to be grumpy old women. I have decided that much of my life has been given to pleasing other people, and now that I am on the brink of maybe one day possibly being a 'senior' I am going to say what I really think, although I would never intentionally hurt anyone by doing so.
I have read - sorry, but I can't remember where - that as we become older, we become the person we were always meant to be.
Do you know, we haven't put up our Christmas tree or put out any decorations? Partly because they were packed away after last Christmas, and as things have been moved so we can paint the Christmas decoration box has been covered, and I didn't have the strength to lift boxes and move things, let alone climb ladders and hold on with one hand while trying to hang stuff. Also partly because we are having Christmas Day with our older son and his girlfriend so the house doesn't need to be titivated. And partly because, I suspect, I am just slack. Let's face it, if the tree and decorations aren't put out then they won't have to be packed away again.
Last appointment with the physio tomorrow for a few weeks as he is going away. The swelling is slowly going down, and I am getting more use of my hand and fingers, but I'm a long way from having the range of movement I had before the break. However I am getting better at knitting, my tension isn't too bad now, and last night I managed to plait my hair! It was very painful and slow, by gosh it hurt, but I managed to get it done. One person will be getting an IOU as part of their Christmas gift - I bought a kit earlier in the year and should have sewn it there and then, but not me.....plenty of time before Christmas, I thought.....little did I know......when I can use a ruler and rotary cutter it will get made and handed over.
"Never refuse a present if offered in kindness, unless the circumstances are such that you cannot, with propriety, receive it. Nor, in receiving a present, make such comments as would seem to indicate that your friend cannot afford to make the present. On the other hand, never make a present which you cannot afford to make. In that case the recipient, if he or she knows anything of your circumstances, will think that you had better kept it yourself."
Have a lovely week, and don't let Christmas preparations stress you out too much.
Jennifer
Oh Jennifer, I hear what you're saying about Christmas. I have unpacked the minimum of decorations this year simply because I can't be bothered packing it all away again!
ReplyDeleteOur tree is up, the decorations are all on the tree (dispite how hard leeloo tries to knock them down, and our lights are up around the appartment. The place is looking very festive, and its EVER so slightly snowing.
ReplyDeleteOther than that, I have alot of sewing to do still....but I might take a time out to make some cookies.
i think that your jewel tree serves quite well as a christmas tree ... it is lovely and green - and that is enough.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas to you and yours, Jennifer! Glad your hand/arm is getting better.
ReplyDeleteI am not putting up a tree this year! I don't have the heart for it - but, I am more in a Christmasy mood than I have been in the last few years. Even drove around to see the Christmas lights.
ReplyDeleteGlad your hand is getting back to normal...I know you have been going through a lot with that!
Enjoy the holidays!!!
Usually I don't get my decorations up as fast as I did this year. Must have known something was coming ...
ReplyDeleteI didn't realize your neighbours were that close! It must have been awful during the building process and all that noise.
Your little WOM's are sweet and bet they were a little bit hard to find.