You know what they say about plans going astray and all that stuff.....
Yesterday, in a great fit of enthusiasm, those Jacob's Ladder blocks were taken out of their box and measured. The blocks were made by several different people and the instructions supplied (written by me, and I was trained to write correct instructions) ended with, the block should measure 9-1/2 in finished.
Well - no, they didn't. Not all of them. Seven blocks did; the remaining 22 blocks were lucky to measure 9 in and some of them weren't even square, making them well nigh useless. As I see it there are a few choices, one of which is to trim all the blocks to 9 in.....not happening, too many seams would be cut off; take the undersized blocks apart and hope the pieces were correctly cut to size in the first place, then reassemble the blocks to measure 9-1/2 in....also not happening, that's a lot of work for a not-very-fabulous result considering the quality of some fabrics used; or forget the whole thing.
So, forgetting is what I'm doing. That challenge will go unchallenged. Those useless blocks may end up being tossed out.
Four years ago we were enjoying autumn in Canada, and getting ready for Thanksgiving.
This is a very small pine tree by the water in Parry Sound, it was down-on-hands-and-knees to get this photo on a cold snowy day.
Each time we left the car in a parking area behind the Midland main street shops we saw this tree....it was even more beautiful than this pic shows.Fallen leaves on the sidewalk outside our B&B in Goderich. I love this mix of colours, it puts me in mind of some batik fabrics.
A damp day in The Land of Tall Straight Trees, on Vancouver Island......I know that's not its official name, but there were a lot of trees, and they were tall and straight.
Embroidery on the first label for my Canadian quilt is proceeding. No stitches were knitted, no diamonds cut or pieced. Words were read, notes were plinked and sung. A sore right shoulder and upper arm has somewhat hampered efforts this week, goodness knows how that happened, but our helpful chiropractor has hopefully started it on the way to recovery. I'm trying not to do anything which will hurt or will injure it further, which makes for a slightly boring week.
A milestone was passed last week - I have now outlived both of my parents! All my grandparents made it into their 80s.....my maternal grandmother was 80 when she died, but both my parents died younger than their parents did. I think my paternal grandmother made it to 90 but I don't know for sure; my father's family cut my mother, my brothers and me out of their lives when my father walked out on us. "I don't want any part of your family squabbles" the old bat wrote to my mother on hearing the news that her older son had left his wife and children without a word to any of them. That's fine. We can live without you too.
We have another flood. The river is up, roads are cut including one of the three river crossings in town. I have lost count of how many floods we have had this year. However, with memories of the drought of just a few years ago fresh in our memories, we aren't complaining.
Now that we have finished with our general rules of etiquette for balls, we shall move outside the ball room to the street.
"The manners of a person are clearly shown by his treatment of the people he meets in the public streets of a city or village, in public conveyances and in travelling generally. The true gentleman, at all times, in all places, and under all circumstances, is kind and courteous to all he meets, regards not only the rights, but the wishes and feelings of others, is deferential to women and to elderly men, and is ever ready to extend his aid to those who need it."
I think we could add "the true lady", could we not? It behooves a 'true lady' to be kind and courteous, also.
Good manners and courtesy are not just knowing how to hold a knife and fork, but how to make others feel at ease in any situation. This is not the only book of etiquette on my bookshelf; I have a more modern book, published in England, which is quite stiff and formal. It places great importance on knowing which fork and spoon to use for which course, and which glass for which wine, and how deeply to curtsey to Lord and Lady So-and-So, but very little on how to treat others with kindness.....something far more important in my opinion, which is emphasised in my 1885 book.
Enjoy your days!



